[BEST WAY] How to Lose Weight and Keep It Off

Most people thinking about losing weight as a simple plant to eat as little as possible and do as much cardio as their bodies could handle. That’s what the books and magazines told them. They don’t care if I they lost water, fat or muscle – they just want the scale to go down.

They are bouncing back and forth between starving and bingeing, exercising twice a day, and the end result is they look worse than when they started! How could this be?

The yo-yo dieting can take a big toll. People can feel like a complete failure and become worn out physically and emotionally.

This is basically what many people are going through when trying to lose weight.

How to Lose Weight and Keep It Off

I know many of you reading this page will relate to this story as I receive hundreds of emails from men and women all around the globe frustrated by their confusion and seeming inability to become the lean, fit, happy and healthy person they desperately want to be.

Maybe you have just a little weight to lose, or perhaps you have quite a bit. Whichever way I am going to reveal to you how to lose weight and keep it off.

To grasp my weight loss concept you will have to learn about 7 BIGGEST mistakes people make when it comes to dieting for weight loss.

I will also explain how you can avoid them and start making progress rapidly and for good! Please, stay with me.

You Are Afraid to Eat Fat

When you hear the word ‘fat’, what thoughts run through your mind? ‘Avoid at all costs’, ‘Will make me gain weight’, or ‘Not part of a healthy diet’? Many people still have a negative perception of dietary fat and believe that in order to look good, fat should be eaten in minuscule amounts.

Unfortunately, this thought process is flawed in many ways and if you don’t correct yourself, it could hold you back from looking and feeling your best.

Let’s have a quick look at some common misconceptions you may have.

Dietary Fat Will Make You Gain Weight (Body Fat)

Hands down the biggest reason most people limit their fat intake is because they feel fat ingested will turn to fat on their body. Just because you eat fat, it doesn’t mean it automatically gets deposited as body fat.

It’s only when you overeat that there’s a problem. Even carbohydrates and protein can get converted into body fat if you take in more than you need. At the end of the day, calorie and activity balance along with your metabolism, determines whether you gain or lose weight.

Low Fat Diets Are a Healthy Way to Eat

Over and over you’ve heard about high fat diets increasing your risk of developing heart disease and some forms of cancer. As obesity is rising at an alarming rate, more and more people are being told to limit the amount of fat they are consuming as a way to battle these two conditions.

What you must remember here is that in general it’s the highly processed foods that are causing the problems. We are eating too many fast food meals of hamburgers and French fries, donuts, pastries, fried foods and creamy sauces, all which are laden with toxic trans fats, often sugar, and not to mention calories as well.

Trans fats

Trans fat, the type that’s found in many of the foods listed above, is the type of fat you absolutely should avoid. This type of fat is toxic – it will react negatively in the body and promote disease.

Saturated fats

Saturated fats (such as those contained in animal products and dairy) have had a bad rap in the past but it’s now coming to light that saturated fat is not at all bad for you. No studies have actually PROVEN that saturated fat causes disease or holds any risk whatsoever! Imagine, being able to eat butter and cheese without feeling guilty…

Fish Oils

Of course you’ve probably heard a lot of good things about fish oils. Fish oil contains the essential omega 3 fats. They are considered essential because your body will not produce them on its own – so without an intake through the diet, you’re going to be falling short.

Furthermore, omega-3 fatty acids can help reduce inflammation and prevent a number of different diseases including arthritis, heart disease and some forms of cancer all while helping to keep your cholesterol level in check.

Omega fats can also boost your level of insulin sensitivity, which will go a long way towards encouraging a leaner body.

Fish oil is a great fat burning food for every dieter.

In summary, fats (the good kinds) will benefit your heart, metabolism and immune system function, protect the internal organs, regulate reproductive hormones, maintain body temperature, and help with digestion – among MANY other things.

How Fat Helps With Weight Loss

In the context of weight loss, dietary fat can prove to be quite helpful. Having the healthy variety in the correct serving size will help to provide a long-term, even supply of energy so you can make it through your day without experiencing energy lulls and tiredness.

Additionally, it is also the macronutrient that is broken down most slowly and therefore will help prevent hunger and cravings between meals. Anyone who’s ever been on a weight loss diet knows that when hunger strikes, willpower often fails. All it takes is a small amount of fat in your meal to make a huge difference in satiety level.

How Fat Helps With Weight Loss

One of the most beneficial fats for fat loss is actually one of the saturated fats! Yes, coconut oil is a saturated fat, but classed as a medium chain triglyceride.

These fatty acids react in your body in a most beneficial way. MCT’s can be broken down and used as a fuel source immediately – rather than circulating in the blood and being stored directly as body fat like other longer chain oils.

Adding coconut oil to your daily diet can help to increase your metabolic rate and promote faster overall weight loss, so if you’re serious about losing weight, it’s one not to overlook. Plus, it has anti-fungal properties, can help to enhance your energy level and endurance, and also offers antioxidant support.

Serve Up Your Fat Correctly

Now you know that healthy fat in moderation is perfectly acceptable (and in fact desirable) on a diet program, let’s talk about how to add it to your meal plan. The following are examples of one serving of fats for the 180-200lb person. Depending on your activity level, try and include two to four servings each day based on your own energy requirements.

  • 20 almonds
  • 12 half walnuts
  • 1.5 tbsp. natural nut butter
  • 1.5 tbsp. olive oil, coconut oil or flaxseed oil
  • 100g avocado
  • 150g salmon (which is also a significant source of protein)
  • 1.5 tbsp. organic butter
  • 1.5 tbsp. heavy cream
  • 50g full fat cheese

So DON’T fear fat any longer. Be smart about the type of fat you choose and how much you dish up onto your plate. If you do, I guarantee you’ll not only be surprised, but delighted, to see yourself losing weight as well as experiencing improved energy and overall wellbeing.

Carbohydrates Confuse You

With all the low and no carbohydrate diets plastered on the front of magazines these days, you may find yourself developing somewhat of a carbohydrate phobia. More and more people are starting to cut out all the carbohydrates in their diet, thinking this is the quickest, best and only way to lose weight.

But is it really? Umm, nope. Let me explain why.

The Impact of Carbs on the Body

Whenever you dramatically reduce your carbohydrate intake, there will be significant impacts on the body. Since the brain runs strictly off glucose as fuel (which is created when carbohydrates are digested), when carbohydrates are removed, the brain will suffer.

You’ll notice you feel ‘foggy’ in your mind and experience reduced concentration levels. You also may get headaches and feel incredibly lethargic. If you’ve tried a low carb diet in the past, you’ll know exactly what I mean.

Losing Weight With Carbs

Because carbohydrates hold water, another big problem with these types of diets is that much of the initial weight you lose is simply water weight.

Therefore, if you fail to continue with the diet you’ll find you gain back the weight you lost very rapidly.

For any dieter, this relapse into a carb-dense diet can be devastating emotionally and can lead to binge eating sessions – a sure fire recipe for fast weight gain.

Carbohydrates and Your Appetite and Mood

If you’ve ever tried a low carb diet you (or others) probably noticed you felt grumpy a lot of the time. This is not only because you are restricted from eating certain foods you enjoy but because of the physiological effect that carbs have on your brain.

When you stop eating carbohydrates your brain stops regulating serotonin, a chemical that elevates mood (and suppresses appetite). And only carbohydrate consumption naturally stimulates the production of serotonin.

Serotonin is crucial not only to control your appetite and prevent you from overeating; it’s essential to keep your moods regulated.

Carbohydrates raise serotonin levels naturally and also act like a natural tranquilizer so you’ll sleep much better with some carbs in your diet.

Carbohydrates and Your Workout Program

Anyone who is performing intense physical activity will notice an even greater impact on a low carbohydrate diet.

In order to create the muscular contractions necessary for resistance training, glucose must be present.

When carbohydrates are not consumed, your strength level will be sapped and you’ll feel drained of energy very early into your workout.

Carbohydrates make up your muscle glycogen stores, which is the form of energy that powers you through your workouts.

After only a few short days of being on a low carbohydrate diet, these muscle glycogen stores will rapidly become depleted, which further makes it difficult to maintain your usual workouts.

Imagine you are a car running on four cylinders. Take away two or three of those cylinders, and this is what it feels like when training on low carbs!

For best results and greater recovery from your exercise program, and to ensure you are still losing body fat, carbohydrates are essential to refill the used muscle glycogen.

I recommend dieting in blocks or ‘phases’ – using higher carb phases combined with lower carb phases.

Choosing Carbohydrates Wisely

There are several ways to keep carbohydrates in your diet while keeping extra body fat at bay. Be choosy about which ones you eat and be careful to choose appropriate portion sizes.

Also, schedule the majority of the carbohydrates you consume before and after your workouts when your body is going to utilize them for energy and recovery rather than fat storage.

The best sources of carbohydrates to consume on a regular basis are complex carbohydrates including oatmeal (unsweetened varieties), brown rice, sweet potato, whole grain bread, and whole grains.

As often as possible try to avoid highly processed, ‘man made’ carbohydrates such as white bread, muesli bars, sugary cereal, cakes, and ‘energy bars’.

See Also: Good Carbs Vs Bad Carbs


Fruit is a carbohydrate that confuses many people but the important thing to know is that you can have fruit on a fat loss diet in moderation.

Fruit does provide natural sugars but it also contains plenty of fibre and vitamins. Aim for one to two pieces a day when you’re more active.

However, you should always eat fruit (or any carbohydrate) with a protein source to lower the glycemic index and lessen the insulin (and fat storage) response.

Those who are athletes performing hours of training a day may require much higher carbohydrate levels. But even then they should still choose mostly wholesome sources to promote good health and steady energy levels.

For most other people aiming for weight loss or maintenance, choose complex carbohydrates once or twice a day and then stick with lower calorie fibrous vegetable sources for the remainder of the day.

In summing up, low carb diets have their place but they should not be followed for long periods of time.

In moderation, carbohydrates are a healthy part of a good nutrition program when you understand how to consume them.

If you choose properly they will not cause you to overeat and gain weight but will provide you with optimal sleep and stable mood patterns. You will also get the energy you need to get through your day and importantly, your workout sessions.

And not least, they also make your meals much more interesting!

See Also: List of Foods High In Fiber

You Don’t Eat Enough Protein

Protein is an important part of the equation when following a weight loss diet as it helps in a number of ways.

Protein when consumed alone or with other food groups helps to stabilize blood glucose levels by slowing down the absorption of glucose into the blood stream.

This in turn will help with satiety, leaving you feeling fuller and satisfied for longer – lowering your insulin levels to help prevent cravings and the need to indulge in other foods.

Protein has another great thing going for it, something you may not even be aware of. Protein can actually increase your metabolism and help you to lose weight faster!

The body has to work harder to break down protein in the body – much harder than it does for carbohydrates or dietary fats.

So, when digesting protein as opposed to carbohydrates or fat, your body has to expend more energy (or calories). This is what we call the ‘thermic effect’ of protein.

Proteins Are Important For Losing Weight

When it comes to weight training, the role of protein is especially important. If you supply your body with enough protein to ensure the growth of lean muscle mass, you can build a more aesthetically pleasing body shape.

When figuring out how much protein to consume, we need to compare apples with apples. The usual Recommended Daily Allowance for protein is based on your average couch potato, and not an athlete or even someone who trains regularly.

Proteins Lose Weight

You see, when you exercise, protein stores are broken down and used for fuel. So, if you don’t get adequate dietary protein, your body ends up burning its own muscle tissue instead.

It has been shown time after time that when combined with the correct training, protein, consumed in smaller amounts throughout the day with a combination of other foods, is the best way to attain the body of your dreams!

So How Much Protein Do You Need?

A good (and easy) rule of thumb is to always include some form of protein (a little fat can be added too) at each meal or snack.

For instance, you can simply add some cottage cheese, Greek yogurt or a protein shake and a few nuts to your (low sugar) cereal or fruit.

Other good sources of protein are eggs, lean cuts of chicken, beef, lamb, turkey, kangaroo, fish, sardines, and so on.

While nuts do contain some protein, they are not considered a protein food as such and should be counted as a fat. Yogurt and milk also contain some protein, but are considered carbohydrate foods.

So remember, protein is important to help repair and build lean muscle tissue which in turn accelerates metabolism making it far easier to lose weight. Protein is also helping to lower the insulin response in your body and to help you feel fuller for longer.

Protein really is a dieter’s best friend!

You Don’t Pump Iron

One of the biggest weight loss mistakes I still see people making is choosing cardio exercise at the expense of weight training.

Although cardio will definitely help in order to reshape your body it’s absolutely essential that you make weight training an important part of your weight loss program.

Weight training will do far more for your weight loss efforts, both in losing the fat and keeping it off long term, than a daily jog around the block will ever do.

First, a challenging weight training session burns calories during the actual workout.

Second, research confirms that intense weight training increases your metabolism for 30+ hours after your workout session.

Therefore, when you finish your weight training session, your metabolism has been aroused so you will be burning more calories even when you are sitting in your chair!

Your metabolism keeps burning more calories than usual for at least 30 hours after you’ve stopped your training. This is not the case happen with cardio programs.

The carbs you eat will support your gym sessions. The more intense training, the more you will expend your carbohydrates and the more fat is burned while you are resting.

As the level of the workouts rises there is a corresponding increase in fat burning after the training session.

See Also: Weightlifting For Beginners: How to Get Started Guide

You Don’t Eat Enough

As you probably know all too well, people have a tendency to go on fad diets that promise rapid weight loss… only to gain it all back again… and again.

This rapid loss followed by even more rapid regain, contributes significantly to stubborn fat deposits, This is because your body now begins to hoard fat – and next time around your body is even MORE reluctant to release this stored fat.

Repeated cycles of weight gain and weight loss also compromise skin elasticity which makes problems such as cellulite even more pronounced.

It’s unfortunate that a large percentage of people fit into this yo-yo dieting category.

But before you go gung-ho into any type of fad diet, let’s look at the reasons why many people fall for them, time and again – and why they will be left ruing that decision very quickly.

After attempting what I call a ‘starvation diet’, most people experience a significant rebound effect for two reasons.

One, they have impaired their metabolism through harsh calorie restriction.

Two, they have no clue how to eat properly or ’normally’ after following such a limiting diet.

Metabolic Rate

Your metabolic rate essentially stands for how many calories your body burns off per day simply to stay alive. This means keeping your heart beating, your lungs breathe in and out, and your gastrointestinal system working well.

The metabolism will slow down usually due to two reasons:

A loss of lean muscle mass due to inactivity

Prolonged periods of low calorie/low carb dieting where the metabolic rate adapts by becoming more efficient to preserve life

The human body is a very smart piece of machinery.

The less you eat, the less energy (calories) you will burn. It is your body’s natural way of protecting itself when it’s starving. The only way to continue to lose weight then, is to eat less food.

Fighting Hunger To Lose Weight

But this may be hard because the levels of your appetite suppressing hormone, Leptin, fall significantly when dieting causing a numerous of other hormones in your organism to respond to force you to eat more food. Because of this you will be fighting hunger non-stop.

Not a fun way to live!

Since it is not possible to fight your hormones, the result of this constant hunger is an all-out binge fest.

And because your metabolism has now slowed down, your body will HOARD all the calories from that binge and store them as unsightly body fat for protection against future starvation.

While it’s possible to lose a significant amount of initial weight on a very low calorie diet (VLCD), most of that weight loss is just water and valuable muscle. This will cause long term damage to your metabolism and make losing weight permanently a much more difficult and unpleasant process.

Dieting in Phases

It’s not all bad news however!

There IS an easy way to combine period of fast weight loss with more moderate weight loss, to prevent all the unwanted side effects.

It’s done by dieting in ‘phases’ or blocks. In other words, lowering your carbohydrates and calories for a short time and then take them again.

This diminishes cravings and hunger by keeping Leptin, your appetite regulator hormone high. This way of eating will keep you satiated, and your blood glucose levels steady and makes losing weight a lot more fun!

You Try To Eat Food You Dislike

I don’t support the idea to eat food you don’t like, just because you want to lose fat. Not only that, I guarantee you, if you lose weight that way you will likely make up for it soon your diet is over.

One of the most important things to long term weight reduction is loving the food you eat every day.

If you don’t like to eat certain foods and your diet plan requires to use them regularly, you will hate the way you are losing weight.

Even if you like particular foods, if you have to eat the same every day you will soon be fed up. Therefore, your weight loss diet must be ACHIEVABLE! If you aren’t able follow it, then it’s good-for-nothing!

This is way you have to find healthy alternatives to the foods you like to eat.

For example, milk chocolate is a problem for many dieters. Here’s one trick for all off you.

Healthy Chocolate Alternative

If you want to lose weight and don’t want to be deprived from chocolate this is a great and healthy alternative.

Take chocolate whet protein and add a little water to make some kind of past out of it. It tastes like chocolate, but is actually good for your weight loss.

You can add raw cacao powder, or peanut (almond) butter to make this chocolate alternative even more realistic.

Another option is to eat dark chocolate instead of milk chocolate. This is a healthy variant of the milk chocolate. You’ll satisfy your sweet tooth and still lose excess weight.

Chocolate is just one example. I assure you you can find healthy variations of most your favorite foods. You just need to be creative.

You Won’t Seek Help

As is our tendency, we like to think we can figure things out on our own. We don’t like to ask for help, and often we are afraid of failing.

And even when we know what to do, we don’t often do it! And that’s really frustrating.

People who have access to experienced mentors and are surrounded by other driven people – and who actively take advantage of those resources – are much more likely to reach their weight loss goals than those who don’t.

But unfortunately, most people seek neither mentorship nor support.

So a Word of Advice…

Get some help, surround yourself with supportive people and shut out as much negativity as you can.

All too often there will be negative friends, family and work colleagues just waiting for an opportunity to bring you down. Steer clear of these types of people as much as possible,

Find weight loss support and encouragement in other places such as online forums, a trainer or online coach, or other gym goers. You’ll be giving yourself the best opportunity to lose the weight you want.

So there you have it – my top 7 diet mistakes that people make. Maybe you’re not making ALL of these mistakes at once but I almost guarantee you can relate to a few.

And let’s face it – it’s not JUST about looking good. It’s also about your immediate and long term health and well-being.

It’s about feeling vital, energetic, and happy. It’s about enjoying your life and lifestyle, keeping up with and being a role model for your kids, now and into the future.

If you find yourself making some of these mistakes, I do hope you’ll get off the yo-yo dieting roundabout by following the advice I’ve provided. It’s time to lose weight and keep it off and start reaching for SUCCESS in a healthy, enjoyable way!

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